From the very first conversation to the final farewell, this is what we are here to create — a planning experience that feels unhurried and deeply personal, and a wedding day where you are fully present for every moment, big and small. The ones you'll talk about for the rest of your lives. That is what happens when every detail has been tended to with care — and everyone in the room can feel it.
Every Detail Held. Every Moment Yours.
San Diego Wedding Planner Serving Couples Across California & Beyond
This is what it feels like to work with us
For the couple who wants to hand it all over and trust completely that every piece is in the right hands. We begin with the foundation — getting to know you, understanding your vision, and building a budget that works for the day you're dreaming of. From there, we assemble a vendor team that is a true reflection of your taste and your story, manage every contract and detail, and bring your design to life with a considered, personal eye. By the time your wedding day arrives, everything has been tended to with care — and the only thing left for you to do is be present for every moment of it.
Full Service Planning
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Your Lead: Molly
You've booked your main vendors and done the heavy lifting — now it's our turn. Partial planning steps in once your foundation is in place, bringing an experienced eye to your design and a steady hand to everything that follows. We'll develop a personal design vision, source your remaining design vendors, and walk you through every remaining detail — timelines, final vendor communication, and full day-of management — so that everything comes together exactly as you imagined.
Partial Planning
Your Lead: Rachel
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You’ve planned every detail with love—now you want the peace of mind of knowing a seasoned professional will see it through. Beginning 90 days out, we learn everything you’ve put in place, build a detailed timeline, wrap up loose ends, and take over all vendor communication and coordination. By the time your wedding weekend arrives, everything is handled and you are completely free to enjoy every moment you’ve worked so hard to create.
Wedding Management
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Because how it feels along the way matters, too.
The Tres Chic Affairs Experience
You'll feel heard from the very first call and cared for every step of the way. Throughout the entire process, we ensure you feel guided, reassured, and never left carrying more than you should. So much of what we do happens quietly, in the background. What you feel is the ease of knowing everything is already in good hands.
For full service planning, most of our clients begin with a wedding budget of $100,000 or more. With that said, every wedding is its own story — and depending on guest count or setting, such as a smaller celebration or a private home wedding, we may be able to work below that. We're always happy to have an honest conversation about what's possible.
There is no minimum for partial planning or wedding management. Our partial planning clients are often investing thoughtfully in design and guest experience, while wedding management is designed for couples who have already planned the details and want a trusted team to carry them through the day.
Tres Chic Affairs is a small, intentional team. Molly works exclusively with our full service planning clients, while Rachel leads the majority of our partial planning and wedding management couples. On your wedding day, we are joined by a trusted team of assistants who reflect the same warmth, professionalism, and care.
Our clients are drawn to what feels timeless, personal, and thoughtfully done. They have a quiet, confident sense of taste and a deep care for the people around them — they want their wedding to feel warm, welcoming, and unmistakably their own. They are not looking to manage every detail themselves. They are looking for someone they trust completely — and once they find her, they hand it over wholeheartedly.
We are based in San Diego and plan weddings throughout Southern California, including Orange County, Santa Barbara, Palm Springs, La Quinta, and San Luis Obispo. We also travel often for destination weddings and love getting to know a new place with the same care we bring to every celebration.
